First of all, I view all things as investing. Though being a playboy and having a new girlfriend every few weeks is a temptation to some. For me its shallow. Its fun, but its never happiness. I take great care in knowing about the person before I commit. But if I do commit, I make sure I go all out. Just like stocks.
Second, relationship eats a lot of time and money. Resources that I'm not willing to sacrifice just to get the approval of a person who doesn't know my true value. Most of the ex girlfriends I have in the past are girls that knew what I'm made of and I didn't tried to get their approval thru courtship. Courtship is a relationship based on lies and masks. You put your best front for the other person to get her/his approval. Its not a good way to start a relationship in my opinion.
I let the girls choose. I make the first move if it so happens I like them as well.
Third, mother nature are more generous to men when they age. Men age like wine. The more they age, the more they improve, the more valuable they become thru assets and knowledge and experience and the more they become irresistible. I only laugh at my friends that marry early because they thought its too late or the world is about to end. I'd rather take my time and let the pieces fall where they may.
Fourth, investing is my top priority as of now. Women are a great creature. You just don't know what they are thinking and while some of us spend time analyzing them. I'd rather spend that time investing. Time is the most valuable resources we have. It is the resources that we all have at the same amount and its up to you on where you spend it.
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